In the Hallway

I met this guy through my friend. At first, I didn't really care for him. But, as I got to know him, he really started to grow on me. He and I made out and it was over for me. We started spending a lot of time with each other. My heart started to really feel for him, I was really beginning to like him. He works out of town, so we developed the relationship long distance. It seemed like everything was working out. I was finally really falling for someone.

Then, one night at a friends house I learned the truth. In my friends hallway, I learned that he had a girlfriend. Not just an on and off again girlfriend. They had been dating for years. I was crushed. How could he do this to me? To her? I confronted him about it. He didn't deny. He just told me lies like he and she were unhappy. He made promises that he would leave her at the end of the summer. Blah, blah. I find it very hard to believe that he could have done that.

We no longer speak, but I still think about him. I can't believe I fell for it. I can't believe I was that girl, that other woman. I don't know what to do about it. I wonder if I should tell her?